How it works
Dating apps broke dating. Thirty doesn't.
A few simple rules keep the focus on real people and real meetups.
3 matches at a time
You only see people once you've both swiped yes on each other — no one-sided matches. And you're never juggling more than 3 at once, so you can actually pay attention to the people you're talking to.
A short window to talk
Every match has a limited number of messages, shared between both of you. It's enough to get a real sense of someone — not enough to stall out in small talk for weeks.
Meet in person, 30 minutes
When you're ready, propose a time and a place — a coffee, a walk, a quick bite, whatever's easy. It's short on purpose: low pressure, easy to leave if it's not there, easy to want more time if it is.
Honest feedback, never awkward
After a date, you'll both privately share how it went. Neither of you ever sees the other's answer — so there's no ghosting to explain and no awkward non-response to sit with.
If it clicks, take it further
If you're both interested in a second date, that match becomes something more — propose another date, or share your Instagram or number if you'd rather continue outside the app.